It’s absolutely devastating that most people resort to building worthless bonds that carry no connection to what is important to them. I’m talking about people settling for others that do not inspire, arouse, reflect, observe, care, even love them for who they are. the description I just gave are the attributes of individuals who have lost hope in themselves, and subsequently have lost hope in others. if u cant relate, connect, and most importantly-MUTUALLY- yearn and desire each others company, then you are missing out on all that’s good in life.
It’s rare to find a person worth time to spend on. It’s ridiculous how a majority of people are looking to use themselves as a commodity. As a commodity to instant sexual pleasure. Among other things to think about, such as STDs, heart ache, etc., these people have a lack of self-worth, self-esteem, and a poor self-concept. When you chose you’re partner, whether it be for a long term relationship or a short-time “sex buddy” you should make sure that you consider yourself first. See if that person, that situation, and your feelings are in harmony with your desires or not.
Personally, a person with no goals or ambitions is a major turn-off. A person that cannot hold a conversation beyond the latest movie or the latest episode of Jersey Shore is not the person worth spending time on. This is because I need to know, in my heart, that the person I’m with, is not depended on me. An individual with morals, ambitions, and an understanding of the future before themselves is a person who values life. Plus, you should be able to learn a few things from the person you’re with.
Consider these and more, when choosing the person who are, essentially, going to share a side of you that you don’t share often. Make sure that the one you choose has the ability to establish mutual trust, mutual respect, and have a compassionate-not to mention passionate, relationship with.
-Alex Yarijanian
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